Ronan Cray
Oct 21, 2023

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"Sacrifice" and "lose" are more negative terms. People who want children add benefit to their lives, a benefit they are willing to make tradeoffs for. One tradeoff might be lifetime earnings potential in exchange for, say, the lifelong love and companionship of a developing human being. Another might defer to the next generation or someoneone outside the self. (Anathema to individualism, I know.) You don't get that at work, and it can't be measured in dollars.
Pitting children against earning potential is a false dichotomy. Commodotizing children's lives only indicates a culture that also commodotizes adults - and women. That society has lost touch with its own humanity and, frankly, the meaning of work itself.

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Ronan Cray
Ronan Cray

Written by Ronan Cray

Ronan Cray moved away from New York City to live in New Zealand. Author of horror novels Red Sand and Dust Eaters, he finds non-fiction more terrifying.

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