I read a lot of feminist books and articles. I can't remember the last time I read one that said, "I llike men, and I look forward to engaging with them as we work together for a brighter future." It doesn't surprise me that men under 30 are wary. The feminists they hear are very much in the "Us vs. Men" camp. Inclusivitiy and diversity does not bridge the gender divide. And while both young men and women respond poorly to these messages, few seem to recognize or acknowledge the damage it is doing.