Flip the script.
What's the difference between what he wants (a hookup) and what they want (the right words). If you see this from the other side, you see he gives them what they want before, and usually without, getting what he wants. They get off the phone feeling sweet while he gets rejected. And you hold it against him to move on.
He says all the right things and still gets a "no". What about all the guys who don't say the right things, who feel awkward or unsure or nervous or just don't have banter. What chance do they have? If anything, this guy should help you see the value in the men who do remember your name, and maybe give them a shot instead of waiting to hear the right words.